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The Big Feelings Parenting Series

Kids Are Not Spreadsheets

Parenting Emotional Kids and Big Feelings: A Dad’s Journey with Three Very Different Children and Teaching Emotional Regulation

By K. C. Mercer

★★★★★ 4.8 from 6 ratings on Amazon

The Volcano The Storm The Iceberg

Parenting doesn’t come with a manual — especially when your children experience the world in completely different emotional ways. One intense and expressive. One unpredictable and fast-moving. One calm on the surface and deeply sensitive underneath.

This book blends honest storytelling, gentle humor, and practical insight from a dad learning that good intentions are not the same as attuned responses.

Available as Kindle (also free with Kindle Unlimited) and paperback on Amazon. Not sold on Etsy.

Who it’s for

Parents who pause before reacting, who reflect after mistakes, who carry quiet doubts, and who keep showing up with love on the hardest days.

What it’s not

Not a rigid manual. Not a spreadsheet for children. A reflection written from the messy middle of real family life — and a companion to the calm-down tools in the Mercer Family Studio shop.